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I think it’s important to remember that heartbreak is a part of the game of life. I know personally, after a string of failed talking stages, heartbreaks, and misunderstandings. I also know we can conclude that our heart and mental health just can’t take it anymore, but that's just not true.
We break before we breathe, and sometimes we breathe before we break. Though, it's after the tears and storms have passed that we find ourselves once again in front of new possibilities. It's hope and faith that keep the heart going, but even though pain is not the story, it is a part of the story, and it's important to remember that in any part of your life. Now, for the first part of your question, talk about it with your potential partner. I know we try our best to hide our traumas and triggers, but the more we hide them, the more we set ourselves up for disappointment. I think it's important to remember that when dealing with your triggers and traumas, you must separate them. The person you're with now may trigger them without knowing, and remember, they are not the person who created them. So talk about it with your partner, be open and honest, it'll bring you closer, and if it doesn't, it'll bring you closer to closure. Unfortunately, traumatic triggers are evidence of a story that hasn't been finished yet. I know that pain, especially from heartbreak, can break you, cause you to become bitter, but if you remember to breathe before and after, you'll find yourself entering… The first day of the rest of your life.
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New Beginnings AKA The First Day of the Rest Of Your Life.
I never realized what the phrase, the first day of the rest of your life meant until recently. I never thought about it, but I felt it was something to say when people wanted change, and I was one of those people. However, I've come to realize that people like me only say it when they want to be dramatic. Change is an action, but more importantly, it's critical to realize that it's also a reaction. For some of us, we don't go looking for change; we let it find us for better or for worse. Comfort can make the best changes feel empty and unknown, but remember, some change is also a reaction more than action, depending on who you are. Face uncertain, but promising new beginnings. When change is a reaction for you. In the end, you conclude that this is the first day of the rest of your life... |
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